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7.120:
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A woman should not
fast (optional fasts) except with her husband's permission if
he is at home (staying with her).
7.121:
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "If a man Invites his
wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then
the angels send their curses on her till morning."
7.122:
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "If a woman spends the
night deserting her husband's bed (does not sleep with him),
then the angels send their curses on her till she comes back
(to her husband).
7.123:
Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "It is not lawful
for a lady to fast (Nawafil) without the permission of her
husband when he is at home; and she should not allow anyone to
enter his house except with his permission; and if she spends
of his wealth (on charitable purposes) without being ordered
by him, he will get half of the reward."
7.124:
Narrated Usama:
The Prophet said, "I stood at the gate of Paradise and saw
that the majority of the people who entered it were the poor,
while the wealthy were stopped at the gate (for the accounts).
But the companions of the Fire were ordered to be taken to the
Fire. Then I stood at the gate of the Fire and saw that the
majority of those who entered it were women."
7.125:
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Abbas: During the lifetime of Allah's
Apostle, the sun eclipsed. Allah's Apostle offered the prayer
of (the) eclipse) and so did the people along with him. He
performed a long Qiyam (standing posture) during which
Surat−al−Baqara could have been recited; then he performed a
pro−longed bowing, then raised his head and stood for a long
time which was slightly less than that of the first Qiyam (and
recited Qur'an). Then he performed a prolonged bowing again
but the period was shorter than the period of the first
bowing, then he stood up and then prostrated. Again he stood
up, but this time the period of standing was less than the
first standing. Then he performed a prolonged bowing but of a
lesser duration than the first, then he stood up again for a
long time but for a lesser duration than the first. Then he
performed a prolonged bowing but of lesser duration than the
first, and then he again stood up, and then prostrated and
then finished his prayer. By then the sun eclipse had cleared.
The Prophet then said, "The sun and the moon are two signs
among the signs of Allah, and they do not eclipse because of
the death or birth of someone, so when you observe the
eclipse, remember Allah (offer the eclipse prayer)." They (the
people) said, "O Allah's Apostle! We saw you stretching your
hand to take something at this place of yours, then we saw you
stepping backward." He said, "I saw Paradise (or Paradise was
shown to me), and I stretched my hand to pluck a bunch (of
grapes), and had I plucked it, you would have eaten of it as
long as this world exists. Then I saw the (Hell) Fire, and I
have never before, seen such a horrible sight as that, and I
saw that the majority of its dwellers were women." The people
asked, "O Allah's Apostle! What is the reason for that?" He
replied, "Because of their ungratefulness." It was said. "Do
they disbelieve in Allah (are they ungrateful to Allah)?" He
replied, "They are not thankful to their husbands and are
ungrateful for the favors done to them. Even if you do good to
one of them all your life, when she seems some harshness from
you, she will say, "I have never seen any good from you.' "
7.126:
Narrated `Imran:
The Prophet said, "I looked at Paradise and saw that the
majority of its residents were the poor; and I looked at the
(Hell) Fire and saw that the majority of its residents were
women."
7.127:
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Amr bin Al−`As: Allah's Apostle said,
"O `Abdullah! Have I not been formed that you fast all the day
and stand in prayer all night?" I said, "Yes, O Allah's
Apostle!" He said, "Do not do that! Observe the fast sometimes
and also leave them (the fast) at other times; stand up for
the prayer at night and also sleep at night. Your body has a
right over you, your eyes have a right over you and your wife
has a right over you." 7.128:
Narrated Ibn `Umar: The Prophet said, "All of you are
guardians and are responsible for your wards. The ruler is a
guardian and the man is a guardian of his family; the lady is
a guardian and is responsible for her husband's house and his
offspring; and so all of you are guardians and are responsible
for your wards."
7.129:
Narrated Anas:
Allah's Apostle took an oath that he would not visit his wives
for one month, and he sat in an upper room belonging to him.
Then, on the twenty ninth day he came down. It was said, "O
Allah's Apostle! You had taken an oath not to visit your wives
for one month." He said, "The (present) month is of
twenty−nine days."
7.130:
Narrated Um Salama: The Prophet took an oath that he would not
enter upon some of his wives for one month. But when twenty
nine days had elapsed, he went to them in the morning or
evening. It was said to him, "O Allah's Prophet! You had taken
an oath that you would not enter upon them for one month." He
replied, "The month can be of twenty nine days."
7.131:
Narrated Ibn `Abbas: One morning we saw the wives of the
Prophet weeping, and everyone of them had her family with her,
I went to the mosque and found that it was crowded with
people. Then `Umar bin Al−Khattab came and went up to the
Prophet who was in his upper room. He greeted him but nobody
answered. He greeted again, but nobody answered. Then the
gatekeeper called him and he entered upon the Prophet, and
asked, "Have you divorced your wives?" The Prophet, said, "No,
but I have taken an oath not to go to them for one month." So
the Prophet stayed away (from his wives) for twenty nine days
and then entered upon them.
7.132:
Narrated `Abdullah bin Zam`a: The Prophet said, "None of you
should flog his wife as he flogs a slave and then have sexual
intercourse with her in the last part of the day."
7.133:
Narrated `Aisha:
An Ansari woman gave her daughter in marriage and the hair of
the latter started falling out. The Ansari women came to the
Prophet and mentioned that to him and said, "Her (my
daughter's) husband suggested that I should let her wear false
hair." The Prophet said, "No, (don't do that) for Allah sends
His curses upon such ladies who lengthen their hair
artificially." 7.134:
Narrated Aisha:
regarding the Verse: 'If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on
her husband's part ...') ( 4.128) It concerns the woman whose
husband does not want to keep her with him any longer, but
wants to divorce her and marry some other lady, so she says to
him: 'Keep me and do not divorce me, and then marry another
woman, and you may neither spend on me, nor sleep with me.'
This is indicated by the Statement of Allah: 'There is no
blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between
them both, and (such) settlement is better." ( 4.128)
7.135:
Narrated Jabir:
We used to practice coitus interrupt us during the lifetime of
Allah's Apostle .
7.136:
Narrated Jabir:
We used to practice coitus interrupt us while the Qur'an was
being revealed. Jabir added: We used to practice coitus
interrupt us during the lifetime of Allah's Apostle while the
Qur'an was being Revealed.
7.137:
Narrated Abu Sa`id Al−Khudri: We got female captives in the
war booty and we used to do coitus interruptus with them. So
we asked Allah's Apostle about it and he said, "Do you really
do that?" repeating the question thrice, "There is no soul
that is destined to exist but will come into existence, till
the Day of Resurrection."
7.138:
Narrated al−Qasim: Aisha said that whenever the Prophet
intended to go on a journey, he drew lots among his wives (so
as to take one of them along with him). During one of his
journeys the lot fell on `Aisha and Hafsa. When night fell the
Prophet would ride beside `Aisha and talk with her. One night
Hafsa said to `Aisha, "Won't you ride my camel tonight and I
ride yours, so that you may see (me) and I see (you) (in new
situation)?" `Aisha said, "Yes, (I agree.)" So `Aisha rode,
and then the Prophet came towards `Aisha's camel on which
Hafsa was riding. He greeted Hafsa and then proceeded (beside
her) till they dismounted (on the way). `Aisha missed him, and
so, when they dismounted, she put her legs in the Idhkhir and
said, "O Lord (Allah)! Send a scorpion or a snake to bite me
for I am not to blame him (the Prophet ). 7.139:
Narrated `Aisha:
Sauda bint Zam`a gave up her turn to me (`Aisha), and so the
Prophet used to give me (`Aisha) both my day and the day of
Sauda.
7.140:
Narrated Anas:
The tradition, (of the Prophet) is that if someone marries a
virgin and he has already a matron wife (with him), then he
should stay with the virgin for seven days; and if someone
marries a matron (and he has already a virgin wife with him)
then he should stay with her for three days.
7.141:
Narrated Anas:
It is the Prophet's tradition that if someone marries a virgin
and he has already a matron wife then he should stay for seven
days with her (the virgin) and then by turns; and if someone
marries a matron and he has already a virgin wife then he
should stay with her (the matron) for three days, and then by
turns.
7.142:
Narrated Anas bin Malik: The Prophet used to pass by (have
sexual relation with) all his wives in one night, and at that
time he had nine wives.
7.143:
Narrated `Aisha:
Whenever Allah's Apostle finished his `Asr prayer, he would
enter upon his wives and stay with one of them. One day he
went to Hafsa and stayed with her longer than usual.
7.144:
Narrated `Aisha:
that during his fatal ailment, Allah's Apostle, used to ask
his wives, "Where shall I stay tomorrow? Where shall I stay
tomorrow?" He was looking forward to Aisha's turn. So all his
wives allowed him to stay where he wished, and he stayed at
`Aisha's house till he died there. `Aisha added: He died on
the day of my usual turn at my house. Allah took him unto Him
while his head was between my chest and my neck and his saliva
was mixed with my saliva.
7.145:
Narrated Ibn `Abbas: that `Umar entered upon Hafsa and said,
"O my daughter! Do not be misled by the manners of her who is
proud of her beauty because of the love of Allah's Apostle for
her." By 'her' he meant `Aisha. `Umar added, "Then I told that
to Allah's Apostle and he smiled (on hearing that).
7.146:
Narrated Asma:
Some lady said, "O Allah's Apostle! My husband has another
wife, so it is sinful of me to claim that he has given me what
he has not given me (in order to tease her)?" Allah's Apostle
said, The one who pretends that he has been given what he has
not been given, is just like the (false) one who wears two
garments of falsehood."
7.147:
Narrated `Abdullah bin Masud: The Prophet, said, "There is
none having a greater sense of Ghira than Allah. And for that
He has forbidden the doing of evil actions (illegal sexual
intercourse etc.) There is none who likes to be praised more
than Allah does."
7.148:
Narrated `Aisha:
Allah's Apostle said, "O followers of Muhammad! There is none,
who has a greater sense of Ghira (self−respect) than Allah, so
He has forbidden that His slave commits illegal sexual
intercourse or His slave girl commits illegal sexual
intercourse. O followers of Muhammad! If you but knew what I
know, you would laugh less and weep more!"
7.149:
Narrated Asma':
I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "There is nothing (none)
having a greater sense of Ghira (self−respect) than Allah."
And narrated Abu Huraira that he heard the Prophet (saying the
same). 7.150:
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet; said, "Allah has a sense of
Ghira, and Allah's sense of Ghira is provoked when a believer
does something which Allah has prohibited."
7.151:
Narrated Asma' bint Abu Bakr: When Az−Zubair married me, he
had no real property or any slave or anything else except a
camel which drew water from the well, and his horse. I used to
feed his horse with fodder and drew water and sew the bucket
for drawing it, and prepare the dough, but I did not know how
to bake bread. So our Ansari neighbors used to bake bread for
me, and they were honorable ladies. I used to carry the date
stones on my head from Zubair's land given to him by Allah's
Apostle and this land was two third Farsakh (about two miles)
from my house. One day, while I was coming with the date
stones on my head, I met Allah's Apostle along with some
Ansari people. He called me and then, (directing his camel to
kneel down) said, "Ikh! Ikh!" so as to make me ride behind him
(on his camel). I felt shy to travel with the men and
remembered Az−Zubair and his sense of Ghira, as he was one of
those people who had the greatest sense of Ghira. Allah's
Apostle noticed that I felt shy, so he proceeded. I came to
Az−Zubair and said, "I met Allah's Apostle while I was
carrying a load of date stones on my head, and he had some
companions with him. He made his camel kneel down so that I
might ride, but I felt shy in his presence and remembered your
sense of Ghira (See the glossary). On that Az−Zubair said, "By
Allah, your carrying the date stones (and you being seen by
the Prophet in such a state) is more shameful to me than your
riding with him." (I continued serving in this way) till Abu
Bakr sent me a servant to look after the horse, whereupon I
felt as if he had set me free.
7.152:
Narrated Anas:
While the Prophet was in the house of one of his wives, one of
the mothers of the believers sent a meal in a dish. The wife
at whose house the Prophet was, struck the hand of the
servant, causing the dish to fall and break. The Prophet
gathered the broken pieces of the dish and then started
collecting on them the food which had been in the dish and
said, "Your mother (my wife) felt jealous." Then he detained
the servant till a (sound) dish was brought from the wife at
whose house he was. He gave the sound dish to the wife whose
dish had been broken and kept the broken one at the house
where it had been broken.
7.153:
Narrated Jabir:
The Prophet, said, "I entered Paradise and saw a palace and
asked whose palace is this? They (the Angels) said, "This
palace belongs to `Umar bin Al−Khattab.' I intended to enter
it, and nothing stopped me except my knowledge about your
sense of Ghira (self−respect (O `Umar)." `Umar said, "O
Allah's Apostle! Let my father and mother be sacrificed for
you! O Allah's Prophet! How dare I think of my Ghira
(self−respect) being offended by you?" 7.154:
Narrated Abu Huraira: While we were sitting with Allah's
Apostle, (he) Allah's Apostle said, "While I was sleeping, I
saw a woman performing ablution beside a palace. I asked,
"Whose palace is this?' It was said, 'This palace belongs to
`Umar.' Then I remembered his sense of Ghira and returned." On
that `Umar started weeping in that gathering and said, "O
Allah's Apostle! How dare I think of my self−respect being
offended by you?"
7.155:
Narrated Aisha:
That Allah's Apostle said to her, "I you are pleased with me
or angry with me." I said, "Whence do you know that?" He said,
"When you are pleased with me, you say, 'No, by the Lord of
Muhammad,' but when you are angry with me, then you say, 'No,
by the Lord of Abraham.' " Thereupon I said, "Yes (you are
right), but by Allah, O Allah's Apostle, I leave nothing but
your name."
7.156:
Narrated `Aisha:
I never felt so jealous of any wife of Allah's Apostle as I
did of Khadija because Allah's Apostle used to remember and
praise her too often and because it was revealed to Allah's
Apostle that he should give her (Khadija) the glad tidings of
her having a palace of Qasab in Paradise .
7.157:
Narrated Al−Miswar bin Makhrama: I heard Allah's Apostle who
was on the pulpit, saying, "Banu Hisham bin Al−Mughira have
requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to `Ali bin
Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give
permission unless `Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in
order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my
body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her,
hurts me."
7.158:
Narrated Anas:
I will narrate to you a Habith I heard from Allah's Apostle
and none other than I will tell you of it. I heard Allah's
Apostle saying, "From among the portents of the Hour are the
following: Religious knowledge will be taken away; General
ignorance (in religious matters) will increase; illegal Sexual
intercourse will prevail: Drinking of alcoholic drinks will
prevail. Men will decrease in number, and women will increase
in number, so much so that fifty women will be looked after by
one man."
7.159:
Narrated `Uqba bin 'Amir: Allah's Apostle said, "Beware of
entering upon the ladies." A man from the Ansar said, "Allah's
Apostle! What about Al−Hamu the in−laws of the wife (the
brothers of her husband or his nephews etc.)?" The Prophet
replied: The in−laws of the wife are death itself.
7.160:
Narrated Ibn `Abbas : The Prophet said, "No man should stay
with a lady in seclusion except in the presence of a
Dhu−Muhram." A man stood up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! My
wife has gone out intending to perform the Hajj and I have
been enrolled (in the army) for such−and−such campaign." The
Prophet said, "Return and perform the Hajj with your wife."
7.161:
Narrated Anas bin Malik: An Ansari woman came to the Prophet
and he took her aside and said (to her). "By Allah, you
(Ansar) are the most beloved people to me."
7.162:
Narrated Um Salama: that while the Prophet was with her, there
was an effeminate man in the house. The effeminate man said to
Um Salama's brother, `Abdullah bin Abi Umaiyya, "If Allah
should make you conquer Ta'if tomorrow, I recommend that you
take the daughter of Ghailan (in marriage) for (she is so fat)
that she shows four folds of flesh when facing you and eight
when she turns her back." Thereupon the Prophet said (to us),
"This (effeminate man) should not enter upon you (anymore).
7.163:
Narrated `Aisha:
The Prophet was screening me with his Rida' (garment covering
the upper part of the body) while I was looking at the
Ethiopians who were playing in the courtyard of the mosque. (I
continued watching) till I was satisfied. So you may deduce
from this event how a little girl (who has not reached the age
of puberty) who is eager to enjoy amusement should be treated
in this respect.
7.164:
Narrated `Aisha:
Once Sa`da bint Zam`a went out at night for some need, and
`Umar saw her, and recognizing her, he said (to her), "By
Allah, O Sa`da! You cannot hide yourself from us." So she
returned to the Prophet and mentioned that to him while he was
sitting in my dwelling taking his supper and holding a bone
covered with meat in his hand. Then the Divine Inspiration was
revealed to him and when that state was over, he (the Prophet
was saying: "O women! You have been allowed by Allah to go out
for your needs."
7.165:
Narrated Salim's father: The Prophet said, "If the wife of
anyone of you asks permission to go to the mosque, he should
not forbid her."
7.166:
Narrated `Aisha:
My foster uncle came and asked permission (to enter) but I
refused to admit him till I asked Allah's Apostle about that.
He said, "He is your uncle, so allow him to come in." I said,
"O Allah's Apostle! I have been suckled by a woman and not by
a man." Allah's Apostle said, "He is your uncle, so let him
enter upon you." And that happened after the order of Al−Hijab
(compulsory veiling) was revealed. All things which become
unlawful because of blood relations are unlawful because of
the corresponding foster suckling relations.
7.167:
Narrated `Abdullah bin Mas`ud: The Prophet said, "A woman
should not look at or touch another woman to describe her to
her husband in such a way as if he was actually looking at
her." 7.168:
Narrated `Abdullah: The Prophet said, "A woman should not look
at or touch another woman to describe her to her husband in
such a way as if he was actually looking at her."
7.169:
Narrated Abu Huraira: (The Prophet) Solomon son of (the
Prophet) David said, "Tonight I will go round (i.e. have
sexual relations with) one hundred women (my wives) everyone
of whom will deliver a male child who will fight in Allah's
Cause." On that an Angel said to him, "Say: 'If Allah will.' "
But Solomon did not say it and forgot to say it. Then he had
sexual relations with them but none of them delivered any
child except one who delivered a half person. The Prophet
said, "If Solomon had said: 'If Allah will,' Allah would have
fulfilled his (above) desire and that saying would have made
him more hopeful."
7.170:
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: The Prophet disliked that one
should go to one's family at night (on returning from a
journey).
7.171:
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: Allah's Apostle said, "When
anyone of you is away from his house for a long time, he
should not return to his family at night."
7.172:
Narrated Jabir:
I was with Allah's Apostle in a Ghazwa, and when we returned,
I wanted to hurry, while riding a slow camel. A rider came
behind me. I looked back and saw that the rider was Allah's
Apostle . He said (to me), "What makes you in such a hurry?" I
replied, "I am newly married." He said, "Did you marry a
virgin or a matron?" I replied, "(Not a virgin but) a matron."
He said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl with whom you
could play and who could play with you?" Then when we
approached (Medina) and were going to enter (it), the Prophet
said, "Wait till you enter (your homes) at night (in the first
part of the night) so that the ladies with unkempt hair may
comb their hair, and those whose husbands have been absent
(for a long time) may shave their pubic hair." (The
sub−narrator, Hashim said: A reliable narrator told me that
the Prophet added in this Hadith: "(Seek to beget) children!
Children, O Jabir!")
7.173:
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: The Prophet said, "If you enter
(your town) at night (after coming from a journey), do not
enter upon your family till the woman whose husband was absent
(from the house) shaves her pubic hair and the woman with
unkempt hair, combs her hair" Allah's Apostle further said,
"(O Jabir!) Seek to have offspring, seek to have offspring!"
7.174:
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: We were with the Prophet in
Ghazwa, and when we returned and approached Medina, I wanted
to hurry while riding a slow camel. A rider overtook me and
pricked my camel with a spear which he had, whereupon my camel
started running as fast as any other fast camel you may see. I
looked back, and behold, the rider was Allah's Apostle . I
said, "O Allah's Apostle! I am newly married " He asked, "Have
you got married?" I replied, "Yes." He said, "A virgin or a
matron?" I replied, "(Not a virgin) but a matron" He said,
"Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you could play with
her and she with you?" When we reached (near Medina) and were
going to enter it, the Prophet said, "Wait till you enter your
home early in the night so that the lady whose hair is unkempt
may comb her hair and that the lady whose husband has been
away may shave her pubic hair."
7.175:
Narrated Abu Hazim: The people differed about the type of
treatment which had been given to Allah's Apostle on the day
(of the battle) of Uhud. So they asked Sahl bin Sa`d As−Sa`id
who was the only surviving Companion (of the Prophet) at
Medina. He replied, "Nobody Is left at Medina who knows it
better than I. Fatima was washing the blood off his face and
`Ali was bringing water in his shield, and then a mat of
date−palm leaves was burnt and (the ash) was inserted into the
wound."
7.176:
Narrated `Abdur−Rahman bin `Abis: I heard Ibn `Abbas answering
a man who asked him, "Did you attend the prayer of `Id al Adha
or `Id−al−Fitr with Allah's Apostle?" Ibn `Abbas replied,
"Yes, and had it not been for my close relationship with him,
I could not have offered it." (That was because of his young
age). Ibn `Abbas further said, Allah's Apostle went out and
offered the Id prayer and then delivered the sermon." Ibn
`Abbas did not mention anything about the Adhan (the call for
prayer) or the Iqama. He added, "Then the Prophet went to the
women and instructed them and gave them religious advice and
ordered them to give alms and I saw them reaching out (their
hands to) their ears and necks (to take off the earrings and
necklaces, etc.) and throwing (it) towards Bilal. Then the
Prophet returned with Bilal to his house . "
7.177:
Narrated `Aisha:
Abu Bakr admonished me and poked me with his hands in the
flank, and nothing stopped me from moving at that time except
the position of Allah's Apostle whose head was on my thigh.